Surprise !! Masculinity and femininity can’t do anything with gender and it’s the truth also.
It's totally right. But the quantity of both energies plays a role. It is true that men tend to have more masculine energy and less energy within them, and women usually have more feminine energy and less masculine energy. So, men are innately attracted to the feminine and women are innately attracted to the masculine energy. If one is a bit unbalanced, it throws off the natural balance of the entire relationship. Let’s get clear view of
A Man with masculine energy - THE MAN !!
Masculine energy directed in a healthy way will look like a man who can lead the relationship with a healthy pace in order to grow toward a committed relationship and Allow himself to become vulnerable. Leading is masculine and setting up and finalizing is feminine. This will lead to resentment on both sides. Consistent and reliable leadership will also help the woman trust him and lean into the relationship more by becoming more vulnerable. It will allow both of you to give and receive. If he does not have proper masculine energy in place, it could be that it might not be a match.
Some healthy masculine energy
Confident and comfortable in manhood.
Being vulnerable to share the part of themselves.
Leading things without the fear of rejection.
Logical and analytical about things and situations.
Speaks more through words than emotions.
Seeks freedom and individuality.
A Woman with masculine energy - A WOMAN !!
When a woman takes on masculine behavior, it is usually because she is avoiding vulnerability. This can often be fear led. For example, She is not fully present in the conversation because she is uncomfortable with uncertainty. These behaviors often mask her truth. Feminine can be in this calm space where she can evaluate how he is making her feel and discern if they are emotionally compatible. If a woman has more masculine energy she may push away the masculine man And if a man has more feminine energy then he may push away the feminine woman.
Some healthy Feminine energy.
Sit back and be there and watch your intuition.
Achieving the relationship is not femininity but flexibility.
Steering the direction and pace of a relationship.
Being emotionally vulnerable and passionately with feelings.
Understanding that the past must know and the future of relationships have to be clear and present is for cherish.
Winter Needs Fire and Summer Needs Water
Opposites do attract and it fills the void in the healthy way. If for instance, two people who have masculine dominant energy, most likely aren't going to get really far. On the other hand if feminine dominant energy, may end up stagnant, with no excitement. It leads to no passion, no adventure and plain as desert.
Therefore, a man should carry the majority of the masculine energy in a relationship and the woman should carry the majority of the feminine energy.
Being balanced with our less dominant energy, like man watching his feminine energy and woman watching her masculine energy in order to create a balanced connection. Because, Masculine crave for feminine as same feminine crave for masculine. Masculine and feminine are equally strong and important and those who understand the balance, they’ll kick apart the concept of women having more masculine energy are brave and strong. Of course, feminine itself is strong, why there is a need to be masculine energy to become strong.
